Next! It’s that simple. Look, not everyone is going to like you. I probably don’t know you yet, and I’m not sure if I like you. Who cares?
Do you know how long I spend thinking and worrying about people who don’t like me?
What were we talking about? Oh yeah, I had to go back and read what I just wrote because it’s in the past, and I’ve learned not to live in the past. If you don’t like me, I’m moving on faster than a fart in church.
I’m trying to connect with positive, amazing, fast-acting giga-chads (like me) who can get with my message. I’m speaking to people who can get on my wavelength. You and I have a mission and purpose. People who don’t like you don’t share your mission and purpose. If you’re not moving quickly toward your mission and purpose, you’re moving away from your goals. Stop, yell “NEXT,” turn around, and get back to work on your goals.
Do you understand now how to deal with people who don’t like you? You don’t. Do not deal with them at all.
I meet a beautiful girl. Her body language and indifference show me she probably doesn’t like me. I spend a millisecond thinking, “She just missed the opportunity of her life,” I pop smoke (POOF), and move on to the next like Batman in a dark alley. I know the next girl I talk to (or the one after) will feel me, desire me, and do amazing things with me.
I spent years waiting on average people who didn’t really like me, hoping they’d finally understand how completely awesome I am and realize, “Wow, I’ve been hanging around the most amazing person all these years, and I was too stupid to get it.” They don’t get it until you’re gone.
Look, I’m on a mission to meet a million positive, purpose-driven men and partner with them to take the actions necessary to crush their goals. You don’t like me? You’re not about that mission? Then you’re not ready to be on this team. I hope you can do the work you need to do to get where you want to be.
I don’t need you to like me, although you’d be a smarter person if you do.
How can I help you? How can we help each other? Act today—let’s do this.